It's no secret that image is important as an exotic dancer. It can be the difference between $300 a night and $1,000 a night. I once...

How do you organize your money bag? I have the same Versace wristlet that I beat up over the years because it holds nostalgic value to...

One of the dark truths of our industry is that management often attracts people who should not be managers of vulnerable groups of...

Can you walk around a pole? Can you smile? Can you take your outfit off slowly and playfully? Can you move your hips? Then, you can be on...

We’ve all been here on both sides. Feeling frustrated because we feel like another dancer is giving up too much and it’s hurting our...

Every veteran stripper knows the adult entertainment industry is rife with predators, including the club’s own employees. Some employees...

An underrated problem while you're in the industry is burnout . Dancing is not a normal job. It requires a higher level of physical and...

He's going to spend if he is interested in you. The best dancers can gauge someone's interest quickly and figure out if the customer is...

I saw a statistic floating around somewhere once that said 100% of dancers have been assaulted at work before. I don't know who came up...

More often than you do now! I replace mine frequently because no one wants to look at a scraggly stripper. Usually every two months I get...

Is there a rude dancer at your club? The girl that just keeps creating obstacles for you and you can’t get rid of her? Three days ago an...

As a dancer, you don't need unrealistic, self-righteous shit. You don't need someone to judge you wherever you're at in your journey. If...

“After this beer” You can take it with us. ( To the lap dance room) Cheers! ( take a sip of yours, so he drinks his) “But, what do I...

We’ve all been there. You spent an hour on your hair and makeup, you got to the club early to make some extra cash before the competition...

Regulars are the bread & butter of your daily income. If you’re dancing as a consistent job, the regulars are the ones that you see every...

As an exotic dancer, people are constantly trying to touch you, invade your space, and grope you. If you yelled at every customer that...

Show Up Everybody becomes an exotic dancer for one reason or another. For many, like myself, you begin because of necessity. Do you need...

You start your dancing career and start to see more money than you've ever seen before. It comes quickly, so you start to believe you can...

Could such a simple trick as picking one color over another make you more money, effortlessly? Under dark lights, your face becomes...

Controlling your emotions is one of the main skills that will make you successful in this industry. It's a tough job, and you will deal...